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How Do You Determine If Something is True? (Acts 17:10-12)

Acts 17:10-12

 

10 The brothers immediately sent Paul and Silas away by night to Berea, and when they arrived they went into the Jewish synagogue. 11 Now these Jews were more noble than those in Thessalonica; they received the word with all eagerness, examining the Scriptures daily to see if these things were so. 12 Many of them therefore believed, with not a few Greek women of high standing as well as men. 

 

            How do you identify a good sermon when you hear one?  Is it how the sermon makes you feel?  Is it a good sermon if it sounds right to your ears?  Is it a good sermon if people weep around you? 

 

            The people in the church at Berea had sermon analysis correct.  They heard Paul teach, and they did not look into their own hearts to see if they liked his words.  Instead, as should be done, the Bereans daily searched the Scriptures to see if Paul’s words were true.  They looked at the inspired word of God to determine if they had been given truth.  And the bottom line is, when the word of God was clearly and rightly presented to the people, the people heard a good sermon.

 

            You know, there are lots of ways that people evaluate the truth of what they have heard.  As a pastor, I’ve heard people say to me, “I just can’t believe that God would do things that way.”  I’ve heard them say, “My granddad told me this was true, and so it must be.”  I’ve heard people say, “I just know this to be true in my heart.”  But none of those are solid ways to determine truth.  If you are going to measure the truthfulness of a statement, you must examine it in light of the written word of God.

 

            There are towns all over the Us and little churches too named Berea.  Why?  The people who understand the name understand that noble followers of God are people who hear the words of men of God, and carefully weigh them against the Scriptures.  Are you a Berean?  Do you examine your feelings, your beliefs, your desires, your doctrine against the Scripture to see if it is true?  God says that holding your life up to the word of God, examining it, and making sure that it measures up is a noble thing, so it might be worth it to you to learn from the Bereans. 

 

The Secret to Spiritual Warfare==No Secret (Ephesians 6:14-18a)

Ephesians 6:14-18a (ESV)

 

Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness,  and, as shoes for your feet, having put on the readiness given by the gospel of peace.  In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one;  and take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God,  praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication.

 

            For some people, nothing is more fascinating than the concept of spiritual warfare.  Some folks have mental pictures of angels and demons grappling in some sort of MMA octagon, each trying to make the other side tap.  And they all want to know what the secret weapon is that they need to use to really have victory over the spiritual forces.

 

            Of course, when this topic is discussed, one of the most commonly cited passages of Scripture is the one above.  There, Paul get’s into the spiritual beat-down metaphor as well.  Paul talks about our defense against spiritual enemies, and he does so in very real terms that would have been known to the people of his day.  Those terms that Paul uses are warfare terms, as Paul lists out pieces of a Roman soldier’s armor. 

 

            What I think many people forget, however, is that this passage is a big metaphor.  The picture is apt, as God wants us to envision our spiritual struggle against the enemy as a battle.  However, it is possible to take any metaphor, even a biblical metaphor, and get so lost in the metaphor that you miss the spiritual point. 

 

            What does it look like when a person misses the point in the metaphor?  Well, look at a person or group that spends time “praying on the armor of God.”  They might even hold out their hands as if they are holding an invisible helmet before sliding it into place on their heads.  They might pretend to buckle the belt of truth around their waists.  Whatever they do, those who are lost in the metaphor think more about armor pieces than they do about the things that are being depicted as armor.  They will spend hours discussing what all the armor pieces do, and not focus on the things that Paul is really commanding.

 

            So, let’s take just a second to remember what our armor really is.  It is a simple list: 

 

·        Truth

·        Righteousness

·        readiness in the gospel

·        faith

·        salvation

·        the word of God

·        prayer 

 

Look at that list, and see for yourself what it is that will give us victory in the spiritual battle that is raging around us.  None of those things are mysterious.  None of those things require a special spiritual armor seminar.  If you just looked at that list of things and were not thinking Ephesians 6, you wouldn’t even come close to thinking of a soldier on a battlefield or an angel putting a chokehold on a demon.

 

            Why would the above  list not stir you to images of battle?  That list would not make you put on imaginary armor because it is quite simply a list of godly Christian attributes.  These are not secret armor; they are simple summaries of how we are to live in our day-to-day, moment-to-moment lives.  We are to be people of truth, because lying dishonors God.  We are to be people of righteousness, because sin dishonors God.  We are to be ready in the gospel, because God has commanded us to be ready, and because the gospel gives us great joy and courage.  We are to have faith, because without faith, it is impossible to please God.  We are to work out our own salvation with fear and trembling as God works in us to will and to act according to his good purposes.  We are to hold fast to the word of God, because God’s word is the treasure that is the revelation of God to us.  We are to pray, because that is what God’s people do, and it honors him when we do it.

 

            Do you see the point?  Paul draws this glorious soldierly picture, but the armor is not some sort of secret spiritual stuff.  What Paul is saying to you is this:  Do you want to win the spiritual war?  If so, live as a Christian.  Don’t spend all your time pondering demons.  Instead, obey God.  Follow his commands.  Take the gospel to the nations.  Trust in his word.  These are the keys to spiritual victory, and they are not often found through spiritual warfare conferences.  These keys to spiritual victory are found in regularly, faithfully walking the day-to-day Christian life.

Be Careful Interpreting Circumstances (Exodus 5:20-21)

Exodus 5:20-21

 

20 They met Moses and Aaron, who were waiting for them, as they came out from Pharaoh; 21 and they said to them, “The Lord look on you and judge, because you have made us stink in the sight of Pharaoh and his servants, and have put a sword in their hand to kill us.”

 

            Does doing the right thing always lead to easy circumstances in life?  No way.  No matter how many people assume that doing good will always and without fail lead to easier lives, it simply is neither true nor biblical.  Certainly, in the eternal picture, doing what honors God will be rewarded.  But it is simply not wise to assume that a set of hardships is a sure sign that the one experiencing those hardships is outside the will of God.

 

            Let’s take Moses’ experience in Exodus 5 as a brief example.  Moses did what God said.  HE went to Pharaoh and asked for his people to be let go for a 3 day journey into the wilderness to worship God.  The Pharaoh, as God said, refused to let the people Go.

 

            What Moses may not have expected is that the Pharaoh had some interesting reasoning to add to the mix.  Pharaoh basically assumed that, if the Israelites have time to wander off and have a 3 day worship rally, they clearly have too much free time on their hands.  So, the best thing that Pharaoh could think to do was to double their workload and make their enslavement very harsh.

 

            The words we read in the Scripture verses above are the words of God’s people speaking to Moses after their meeting with Pharaoh.  They look at this man of God who did what God told him to do, and they can’t stand him.  “You!  You are the cause of all this!  You are the one making trouble for us!  Just leave us alone and we’ll be fine.  We don’t need your help if all it is going to get us is extra work and harsher beatings.”

 

            Did it work out in the end?  Of course it did.  We all know that God used Moses to lead the enslaved Hebrews out of Egypt.  Moses was vindicated in his lifetime.  But make no mistake about it, that vindication was not immediate.  Moses suffered under the horrible burden of knowing that his work looked, for a time, like a failure.  The people were turning their backs on him.  The Pharaoh was making the work worse for the people.  Everything seemed to be failing and falling apart.

 

            Yet, God was in control.  Sometimes God will take us through times like Moses went through.  Sometimes life will look like it is falling apart around us.  WE cannot assume that this is a sign of God’s judgment.  Sometimes God, as our good shepherd, leads us through the valley of the shadow of death for his glory (Psalm 23:4).  Sometimes darkness seems to reign before the light breaks through. 

 

            Christians, if you are in a tough situation, be careful what you assume.  Do not necessarily assume that your circumstances are the result of God’s disfavor.  Perhaps your circumstances are bad because God is trying to get your attention, but then again, maybe not.  What you must do is what we will see Moses do.  You cry out to God.  You constantly go back to his commands (for you that is the Bible and not a burning bush experience).  You do what you know God has revealed is his will.  And sometimes you suffer through the pain for the glory of your Lord.  HE will set things right in time or in eternity.  Trust him, and do not let present hardships totally steer your thinking.

 

[You might also want to read my post on this passage from last year, as it apparently got my attention a year ago too.  That post has a link to an excellent sermon on the topic that I once heard in the SBTS chapel (wow, I linked it here too).]

Love the Church Like Christ Loves His Bride (Ephesians 5:25-27)

Ephesians 5:25-27 (ESV)

25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, 26 that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27 so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish.

 

            Whenever you hear someone talk about the passage above, you are generally hearing them talk about the roles that husbands and wives play in the home.  This, of course, is perfectly right, as the passage is dealing with those issues.  However, there is another thing that it would do us well to notice about the picture that God is drawing for us through Paul’s writings.

 

            God calls husbands and wives to have their relationship of love and respect demonstrate for the world the relationship between Jesus Christ and his bride, the church.  But, if our relationships are to mirror the love of Christ for his church, we must, absolutely must, remember that Jesus Christ has that kind of love for the church.  Too often, we miss the fact of Jesus’ love.

 

            Jesus loves the church the way that a perfect husband loves his bride.  He thinks she is beautiful.  He wants to be with her.  He wants to take care of her.  He wants to protect her from harm and from slander.  He wants to help her to grow.  He wants her to be the most radiant, most beautiful, most perfect bride that she can be.  And he gives his all to make sure that this will happen.

 

            When you think of the church, do you remember that Jesus feels this way about his bride?  Are you able to look at your local congregation, a congregation with wonderful strengths and obvious flaws, and see the beloved of Jesus?  Do you remember that the others in the body, even those who look, think, and smell different than you, are the very people that Jesus considers his precious wife?  Do you find encouragement in the fact that Christ loves you in your blemishes, but that also means that he loves your brothers and sisters with their blemishes too?

 

            What will change when you see the church as the bride of Christ?  Our speech will change, for sure.  No one is going to look at a beaming groom and tell him, “Boy, your wife sure is ugly.”  It will also change our commitment to the church, as we realize that we must work together and each do our part to become the bride who will please our Savior.  It will change our giving and our attendance as we who are the bride of Christ would not ever want to give him anything less than our very best. 

 

            Church family, Jesus loves his church.  He loves us, warts and all.  He will work with us, from now until the day he returns, to make us more like the beautiful bride that he already sees in us.  Let’s pray that we remember that we are the bride of Christ, and let’s work to love God and others in such a way as to become the beautiful bride that our Savior deserves.

A Next Gen Word from an Aging Saint (Psalm 71:18)

Psalm 71:18

 

So even to old age and gray hairs,

O God, do not forsake me,

until I proclaim your might to another generation,

your power to all those to come.

 

            Psalm 71 is a unique psalm in one distinct way.  This psalm presents the psalmist, not as a strong young king or warrior, but as an aging saint of God.  The psalmist cries out to God for help, as we see in many psalms.  The psalmist prays for God to rescue him from enemies who seek his life, as we see in many psalms.  But in this psalm, the psalmist is old.

 

     Verse 18 of this psalm communicates something that every saint of God, old or young, needs to hear.  As the psalmist prays for God’s deliverance, he gives a reason why he wants to be rescued.  He prays, “O God, do not forsake me, until I proclaim your might to another generation, your power to all those to come.”

 

     Stop the presses, and think this through.  Look at the psalmists’ motivation.  He is praying for rescue.  He is praying for relief.  He is praying for God to take care of him.  But look why.  He is not praying for God to just make his life comfortable.  He is not praying that God will grant him ease as a reward for years of faithful service.  He is not telling God, “I’ve paid my dues and I deserve a break.”  No, this man is pleading with God for another chance to proclaim the goodness of God to another generation.  He will not be satisfied until he sees more people, more young people, trust in God.

 

     No matter what age you are, you can learn from this psalmist.  When you pray, are you praying that God would take care of you so that you can take the gospel to the next generation?  You see, this is the kind of prayer that God wants out of you.  He does not want you to look for the comfort of your own generation, he wants you to be focusing on seeing to it that the next generation, the younger generation, has the chance to hear the gospel.

 

     Imagine what this would look like in a church.  You would see youth groups who, instead of only doing their own thing, are looking for ways to help in VBS and children’s Sunday School and even the nursery.  You’d see twenty-somethings looking for ways to help in children’s worship.  You’d see parents investing in the lives of students and not expecting that someone else will carry that burden for them.  You’d see adult Sunday School classes, even senior adults, constantly pushing for new ways of doing things that would appeal to the younger crowd, even if that younger crowd is now in their forties.  You’d see people giving themselves to discipling others who are younger than they are, even if only by a few years.

 

     Folks, if we want to be like this psalmist, if we want to be godly like him, we need to be looking around for ways to see to it that the next generation gets the gospel.  There is always a generation younger than you are.  How can you give of yourself to see to it that the younger generation will hear and will understand the words of life?  And be like this psalmist in the motivation of your prayers.  He prayed to be rescued so that he could take the gospel to another generation.  Why do you pray to be healed or to have financial stability?  Let us learn to focus on ministering to the next generation, and we will find health in our generations as well.

 

Pharoah, Midwives, and the Abortion Debate (Exodus 1:15-17, 20-21)

Exodus 1:15-17, 20-21

 

15 Then the king of Egypt said to the Hebrew midwives, one of whom was named Shiphrah and the other Puah, 16 “When you serve as midwife to the Hebrew women and see them on the birthstool, if it is a son, you shall kill him, but if it is a daughter, she shall live.” 17 But the midwives feared God and did not do as the king of Egypt commanded them, but let the male children live.

 

20 So God dealt well with the midwives. And the people multiplied and grew very strong. 21 And because the midwives feared God, he gave them families.

 

            As part of the horrors that the Hebrews suffered under the oppressive rule of Egypt, the midwives were commanded to murder newborn children.  There was a selection process, and that process was simple.  When a child was born, the women who delivered the babies were to check the sex of the child.  If the child were male, the child was to die.

 

            The midwives, for their part, refused to obey this evil command.  They knew that God would be greatly dishonored were they to carry out such a barbaric practice.  They knew that God wants children to live.  They knew that God strongly commands against murder.  They knew that, even though a tiny baby cannot be a productive member of society without growing, that tiny baby has value simply because he is created in the image of God.

 

                        See any similarities to the abortion debate?  If you don’t, you’re not looking. 

 

            Recently, it was Sanctity of Human Life Sunday in many of our churches around the world.  Many pastors preached on the topic of the God-honoring cry to let the children live.  I want to share with you a couple of quotes from John Piper’s sermon entitled “Born Blind for the Glory of God.”

 

Let me set up the situation we are facing in America and how today’s text relates to it. There are about 3,000 abortions a day in the United States and about 130,000 a day worldwide. Which means that the horrific, gut-wrenching reality of Haiti’s earthquake on January 12 happens every day in the abortion clinics of the world. And it is likely that if the dismemberment and bloodshed and helplessness of 130,000 dead babies a day received as much media coverage as the earthquake victims have—rightly have!—there would be the same outcry and outpouring of effort to end the slaughter and relieve the suffering.

 

The recent gains in prenatal testing have introduced the possibility to abort children with traits you don’t want in a child. So it is especially common in China to abort girls because of the coercive one-child rule. Most prochoice people in America think that’s odious.

 

So, for example, according to Dr. Brian Skotko, pediatric geneticist at Children’s Hospital in Boston, in a November 2009 article from ABC News, “An estimated 92 percent of all women who receive a prenatal diagnosis of Down syndrome choose to terminate their pregnancies.” This is true, even though, as Gary Bauer points out, there are many “waiting lists of couples ready to adopt children with Down syndrome.”

 

            Are we in America so different than the Egyptians of old?  The Pharaoh ordered the murder of children based on nothing more than their sex.  He made this command because he believed it to be in the best interest of his nation.  Pharaoh did not believe that his country could afford the harm that would be done the country if the Hebrew nation were allowed to grow unchecked.  It was not that Pharaoh had a perverted lust for blood; it was merely that he wanted his people to keep their current standard of living.

 

            In much of the political debate regarding abortion, the whole argument hangs on arguments like Pharaoh must have made.  People, after all, deserve the right to succeed in life and not, as then presidential candidate Barak Obama said, be “punished with a baby.” Giving birth to a special needs child or giving birth to a child at an inconvenient time of life could very well change a person’s entire future, their entire standard of living.  We don’t want to do that to anybody, do we?  Sure we don’t’ like abortion, but it is the only way that our people will keep their freedoms intact. 

 

            The Hebrew midwives saw the problem, and so should we.  It is far more important to fear God than it is to battle to keep a particular lifestyle.  It is far better to fear God, even if that causes you suffering in this life, than to put a child to death.  And while you may be able to make arguments as to how other social issues are important, the fact still remains that the intentional slaughter of 3,000 children per day is a great evil that no reasonable person can deny.  If swine flu were killing 3,000 people per day, the nation would move heaven and earth to put a stop to it.  If Islamic terrorists were able to kill 3,000 Americans per day, the people would be screaming for military intervention on the highest level.  And, in either of those cases, if a political candidate told the people, “I want us to focus on other important issues like jobs and the economy,” the people would, or should, so soundly vote down that candidate that no one would ever make such a foolish claim again.

 

            Christians, make no mistake about it, what the Pharaoh commanded the Hebrew midwives to do was pure evil, and the very same thing he commanded be done is happening all over our land every day.  Not all who participate in the abortion industry intend evil.  Some don’t understand.  Some don’t believe.  Some intentionally try not to think about what is happening.  But the fact is, thousands of little bodies are mutilated and dismembered every day for the sake of human convenience and sexual freedom.  Let us be like the Hebrew midwives who understood that it is far better to fear God and save lives, even if this costs us at present,  than to murder children and live at ease.

Suffering and the Valley of the Shadow (Psalm 23:4)

Psalm 23:4 (ESV)

Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,

I will fear no evil,

for you are with me;

your rod and your staff,

they comfort me.

 

            Life can be hard.  Sometimes, life can be brutally hard.  We want to keep those lovely Christian smiles on our faces as we tell those around us that everything is OK.  But, if we are honest, we need to do better.  A false smile means nothing.  What we need is the kind of understanding of suffering that we see right here in the most famous of psalms, Psalm 23.  

 

            What happens here is something hard.  It is the valley of the shadow of death.  This may be the psalmist facing danger or even his own death.  It may simply be him facing a truly dark moment of life, a shadow like death.  But whatever this shadow is, the psalmist is facing it.  In fact, he is walking through it.  There is no shrinking back from death or its shadow.  The follower of God, on occasion, will walk through the pain.  How we handle ourselves in those moments speaks volumes about what we truly believe about God.

 

            Notice also that you walk through the valley.  No valley, no dark place is ever permanent.  Even if the psalmist is walking to his death, as a believer in God, he knows that death is not the end of life, but it is the beginning of a new life.  Like a dark valley, there is light on the other side of the trial.  There is eternity on the other side of death.  There is a new day on the other side of the hurtful, difficult, painful moments of life.  And the psalmist, and any Christian, finds that hope in God.

 

            How, by the way, did the sheep get into the valley of the shadow of death?  He walks there.  In verse three, he was being led down paths of righteousness for God’s name’s sake.  Here, he walks into a difficult, hurtful, frightening time.  Perhaps he walks eve into his last moments of life.  But there is no indication that he is still not following his shepherd.  In fact, we know that the shepherd is right there with him, comforting him.  So, the shepherd led the sheep into the valley for his name’s sake in just the same way that he led the sheep along paths of righteousness for his name’s sake.  When we go through hard times, we do not go through them without God.  God is our shepherd, leading us into and out of the valley for the sake of his own glorious name.  Never miss that, or you will miss much of the purpose of your own life’s struggles.  No, I do not pretend to know why God chooses to do things the way that he does in our lives, but I can guarantee that, when it is all said and done, all will be for the praise of Gods’ glory.

 

            The shepherd’s rod and staff comfort us.  Those are the tools that the shepherd uses to lead and protect the sheep.  Sometimes, those are even the tools that the shepherd uses to discipline a wayward sheep.  They remind us that, even when we are going through the valley, God is right there.  He is strong and able to deliver us.  He is powerful and able to protect us from all enemies.  It is not that we never fear, but our fear is actually driven away by his protection.  It is not that we never hurt or are in danger, but we find our comfort in his mighty protection. 

 

            So, are you in the valley?  Do the times of green grass and still waters seem so far in the past that you cannot remember them?  If so, then remember that God is still right there.  If you are in Christ, you have a shepherd who walks by your side through this valley.  He protects you.  He will comfort you.  He leads you, even through the pain, for the glory of his name.  And he will lead you out of the valley to the other side. 

Keep A Proper Perspective by Trusting in God’s Plan (Genesis 50:20-21)

Genesis 50:20-21 (ESV)

20 As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people should be kept alive, as they are today. 21 So do not fear; I will provide for you and your little ones.” Thus he comforted them and spoke kindly to them.

 

            Joseph’s brothers in Genesis 50 were deathly afraid that Joseph would lash out at them and do them harm in return for the evil they had done to him.  Just before the passage above, they had come to him, begging that Joseph not harm them.  They even agreed that they would become his slaves if he would simply keep them alive.

 

            How was Joseph able to be loving and kind in this setting?  Joseph was able to be kind to his brothers, and even to give to meet their needs, because he had a God-focused perspective.  Joseph knew that God had a plan to accomplish, and the accomplishment of that plan was more important than anything that he might have personally gone through.  God’s plan was to save many lives, and if that inconvenienced Joseph’s own life, that was OK. 

 

            This looks like the writing of Paul in . . .

 

Romans 8:28 (ESV)

And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.

 

            All things work together for good.  This is not a statement that all things are good, but that God makes all things work out for good eventually.  It was not good that Joseph was sold as a slave.  It was not good that Joseph was falsely accused of a crime.  It was not good that Joseph was thrown into prison.  It was not good that Joseph was forgotten in prison by the Pharaoh’s cup bearer.  But God made all those things work together for good, ultimate good.

 

            How can we survive when life makes us miserable?  One way is to keep an eternal perspective on matters.  We must remember that we cannot see what God is up to.  In our pain, he may be accomplishing something that is immeasurably bigger than us.  While it may not be feeding a nation in famine, it might be just perfecting us for his own glory, which is certainly a good enough reason for us to go through trials.

 

            Paul saw this truth clearly, and wrote about it in. . .

 

2 Corinthians 4:16-18 (ESV)

 

16 So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. 17 For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, 18 as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.

 

            That is proper perspective.  We go through momentary, light affliction.  Yes, it feels like the weight of the world comes crashing down on us.  We go through terrible things, full of hardship and pain.  But, when we remember that God is good and that God has a plan, we can have the kind of attitude we see in Paul and in Joseph.  Yes, it is affliction, but it is temporary; and it does not compare at all to the weight of eternal glory in the presence of God.

 

            God is good.  God has a plan.  And if we can remember that God is in control and doing his will, we can keep a proper eternal perspective.  It is that perspective that can help us avoid wrong reactions to our own circumstances.

They Just Tried to Kill Me…Let’s Go Talk to Them Again! (Acts 14:19-23)

Acts 14:19-23

 

19 But Jews came from Antioch and Iconium, and having persuaded the crowds, they stoned Paul and dragged him out of the city, supposing that he was dead. 20 But when the disciples gathered about him, he rose up and entered the city, and on the next day he went on with Barnabas to Derbe. 21 When they had preached the gospel to that city and had made many disciples, they returned to Lystra and to Iconium and to Antioch, 22 strengthening the souls of the disciples, encouraging them to continue in the faith, and saying that through many tribulations we must enter the kingdom of God. 23 And when they had appointed elders for them in every church, with prayer and fasting they committed them to the Lord in whom they had believed.

 

            The story of Paul at Lystra in Acts 14 is one of the most fascinating accounts that we read in the Book of Acts, though I seldom hear it taught.  In verses 8-18, we learn that, while traveling with Barnabas, Paul, by the power of God, heals a man.  The miracle stirs the people of Lystra up so much that they assume that the gods had come down to earth in human form.  The people think Barnabas is Zeus, because he does not speak, and they call Paul Hermes, because he appears to be the spokesman.

 

            Things get even crazier when the people actually bring in the priest of Zeus to offer a sacrifice to Barnabas.  Of course, Paul and Barnabas do everything they can to put a stop to this foolishness.  They tear their clothes, signifying that they are horrified, and run into the crowds telling everybody that they are ordinary men who happen to be carrying the message of the one true God.

 

            Then things get even crazier than before.  Other men arrive and stir the crowds up against Paul and Barnabas.  That same group that was just about to hail the evangelists as deities suddenly turns, drags Paul out of the city, stones him, and leaves him for dead.  They actually go from wanting to worship Paul to trying to crack his skull with big rocks in just a few moments. 

 

            What is stunning to me, however, is what happens next.  Paul isn’t dead.  His friends get him out from under the rock pile and dust him off.  Then Paul walks right back into the city of Lystra.  You know the guys were thinking, “Paul, you might have taken one too many of those rocks to the noggin; they just tried to kill you in Lystra.  Let’s go somewhere else.”  But Paul had none of it.  He went back into Lystra.  He then went to the surrounding towns and even made a return visit to Lystra before moving on. 

 

            Now, let me add one more piece of data from Acts 16.  Sometime later, Paul made yet another visit to Lystra on a different missionary journey.  Here is what happened:

 

Acts 16:1-3

1 Paul came also to Derbe and to Lystra. A disciple was there, named Timothy, the son of a Jewish woman who was a believer, but his father was a Greek. 2 He was well spoken of by the brothers at Lystra and Iconium. 3 Paul wanted Timothy to accompany him, and he took him and circumcised him because of the Jews who were in those places, for they all knew that his father was a Greek.

 

When Paul returns to Lystra this time, he meets a young man who has come to Christ and who is eager to serve him.  Paul picks up a follower in Lystra named Timothy.  Of course you know, if you know the bible, that Paul’s young friend Timothy would be as dear as a son to Paul.  Timothy would be a true help and encouragement to Paul, even to Paul’s dying day.  In one instance Paul described Timothy in this way:

 

Philippians 2:19-20

19 I hope in the Lord Jesus to send Timothy to you soon, so that I too may be cheered by news of you. 20 For I have no one like him, who will be genuinely concerned for your welfare.

 

            Don’t’ fail to connect the dots here.  Paul walked back into a dangerous place, an uncomfortable place.  He did so for the sake of the gospel.  Eventually, Paul’s faithful service led to the conversion of Timothy, a friend like no other to Paul.  If Paul runs from Lystra, Paul doesn’t gain Timothy to serve with.

 

            What kinds of things make you turn from your own Lystra?  Is it big stuff?  Has someone hurt you, and so you aren’t going to have any more to do with them?  Has a church member offended you, so you’re going to run to the next church down the street?  Have you embarrassed yourself in front of someone, and so you are going to avoid them in the future?  Or is it smaller?  Is your favorite TV show on, so you are going to try to get out of that phone call with your non-Christian friend?  Have you had a hard day at work, so maybe skipping tonight’s Bible study is in order? 

 

 

            Christians, I’m not going to try to promise you that every time you walk into a hard situation, you will gain an ally like Timothy for lifelong friendship.  What I can promise you is this:  When you do what God calls you to do, even when it is hard, God will be glorified and you will have joy.  It may work well, or the people may throw rocks at you, but, if you are obeying the word of God, you will be doing something glorious.

Stop Dating the Church — A Review

            Stop Dating the Church is an outstanding, short little book on how believers in Christ ought to view the church.  Josh Harris packs a lot of power into a few pages, and his efforts will challenge and encourage believers.

 

Positives

 

            Harris has a very solid view of what the Bible has to say about the importance and purpose of the local church.  If you need to better grasp what the church is for, this little book is an excellent place to begin to understand it.

 

            Harris’ concept of dating the church is a very real problem in the Christian culture of today.  In dating relationships, men and women often put up with one another so long as they feel that they are getting their needs met.  At the point that they feel the relationship is difficult to maintain or that it is not giving them as much bang for their buck, they leave the relationship to seek a new one.  This is harmful in the lives of individuals, and it is devastating when a person adopts this view of how to choose a local church.

 

            Harris is also very practical.  He offers lists of ways to choose a local church, to serve in that church, and even how to prepare for Sunday morning worship.  His lists are generally quite helpful, and not the mere bullet points of an author who keeps making things up in order to make it look like he or she has something to say.

 

Negatives

 

            The biggest negative that I have relating to this book is that it does not cover enough.  There is so much more to be said.  But, this is not a fair criticism of Harris’ work, as he clearly set out to write a brief, accessible, and helpful introduction to this topic.

 

Recommendation

 

            I highly recommend this work to all believers.  Pastors will benefit from this work as they are reminded how much Christ loves his bride.  Church members will benefit as they are challenged to do their part to make the church, as Spurgeon once said, “the dearest place on earth.”  Church attendees who are not yet committed will benefit from this work as they are challenged to make an adult decision and commit to an imperfect yet growing local body of believers.

    

Joshua Harris, Stop Dating the Church!: Fall in Love with the Family of God. Sisters, OR: Nultnomah Publishers,2004. 144 pp.  $10.39.